The definition of success is the accomplishment of an aim or purpose. As parents, we often set ideal aims or purposes for our children based on our understanding of what will make them happy. Let's take some time to then ask ourselves, what equates to happiness? Could it be having money in excess? Could it be keeping in good health? Or could it be becoming famous?
Let's take a pause here.
Imagine your child in each of the 3 states or more. One without the other.
Could our definition of success actually mean wanting our children to lead happy and fulfilled lives? Perhaps we hope that they'll earn a lot of money to be happy buying things they want. Perhaps we hope that they'll be healthy so that they can travel the world and experience its wonders to be happy. Perhaps we want them to be famous because we hope that being recognized will give them the love and attention to be happy.
Perhaps what we truly want is for our children to be happy.
Surely happiness can be found in success, but is success only found in the form of large milestones? Or can we find success in simple things?
We can start with exploring the essence of success and embracing its presence in our child's everyday moments. Here are 3 tips to look for success in simplicity.
TIP #1: Celebrate the SMALLEST of victories.
Success is not solely measured by academic accolades, career accomplishments, or material possessions. It lies in the realm of personal fulfilment, emotional intelligence, and meaningful relationships. Encouraging children to celebrate and value the smaller victories like demonstrating good manners or sharing toys, can play a big role in their overall well-being.
TIP #2: Support every ENDEAVOR.
Nurturing a child's interests, be it painting, playing an instrument, or exploring nature, allows them to experience the joy of dedication and progress. By supporting their endeavors, we will be able to foster a lifelong love for learning and enable little ones to find the success that can truly fulfil them.
TIP #3: Embrace FAILURE.
Success also resides in the ability to embrace failure and learn from it. By teaching our children to view setbacks as valuable learning opportunities, we empower them to adapt, grow, and become strong individuals.
Whether it's a missed goal on the soccer field or a disappointing grade, guiding them through disappointments teaches them the art of perseverance and problem-solving.
In conclusion, it is important to appreciate the little things, in order to lay the foundation of your little one's future accomplishments. So, let's savor those precious moments and revel in the wonder of our children's growth, one little success at a time.